You Say You Want A Resolution

Change

I have mixed feelings about making New Year’s Resolutions.  Mostly because I think that if you want to change something, don’t wait until a specific date, just start changing it.  That being said, I have created a list of things I plan on doing differently or  more of or less of in 2015.  Some seem like traditional resolutions, some seem like just like the right things to do.  I look at the Holstee Manifesto every morning and read a different line from it.  I will add in and expound on a few of my favorites here also.  Here they are in no particular order:

holstee manifesto share1.  Visit the doctor and dentist more.  I get free checkups, I need to be using them.  I only get one body, I need to keep it in good shape.  I can’t take better care of my car than I do my body, they both need tune ups and check ups.

2.  Less internet and social media.  I am going to delete Facebook from my phone (Finland is the only reason I am not deleting my Facebook in total) and will delete old Facebook posts manually.  I will probably delete my Twitter (I feel like it is opting in to all sorts of marketing and I can’t think of anything that I have really gained from it).  I will definitely delete my ello (it never happened).   I will probably only use my Tumblr for promoting Rick’s art and art blogs that I also will keep.  In 2015, I want my social media to be social, interactive, inspiring, supportive, and two-way.  If certain platforms aren’t, then they aren’t and they have to go.

3.  More tattoos.  Call it a mid-life crisis, call it what you want. I want more tattoos.  I am ready to chronicle, commemorate, and personalize my body with tattoos that mean something to me.  The next ones I am going to get are five little birds on the left side of my neck and maybe to lines of numbers that represent the map coordinates of the places that are important to me on my right.  I figure that I will be wearing suits for the rest of my professional life, so the tattoos will be hidden under the shirt collars.

4.  Run.  If it means that I have to get up at 5:50am to get in a run, then so be it.  I need to commit to going to the gym five (at least four) times a week.  I want to do yoga once a week.  I want to try running a couple 5k/10k runs in 2015.  I have a FitBit Flex tracking my activity.  I should commit to hitting at least  10,000 steps a day.  I only have one body and it needs to last and be in good shape for as much as my life as possible.

5.  Work.  I want to find a place that I can dig in and work for the long haul.  I spent most of my 20s trying to get my head in the right spot, to be where I liked myself and found worth in who I was.  Doing so pushed my developing my career off to the side.  I have had a life full of career false-starts and will keep trying and searching until I find a place where I am excited to come to every day.

6.  I am going to simplify my belongings.  I am not going to hold on to things for nostalgia.  If I no longer fit in those suits, they should be donated to a place that can benefit from them.

7.  Stop worrying and caring.  I think that I have stopped worrying and caring what people thought about me a long time ago, but it is always a good refresher to visit.  I am gong to a lot less bars lately, bars seem to be where a lot of the judging happens.  Do those people pay your bills?  No?  Haters ‘Cause They Ain’t Us.  #NoFucksGiven

2014: Rear View Mirror. Year In Review.

waldina collage 2014

2014 was another great year.  I broke it down by social media entity below and would like to thank everyone that helped along the way.  I hope you enjoyed the content.  I do it for myself, for me to remember and find inspiration in the lives of those that have lived brave, powerful, artistic, unapologetic, creative, big lives.  If along the way, one of them inspires you too, then all the better.  We owe it to all of them to not be small, to be big and go out there and drain every last ounce of life out of it.  We are the stars in our lives, not the supporting actors.  Go out there and be a star.
catch 22

The Waldina Annual Report has been released.  You can view the fancy version at HERE  (there are fireworks).  This year, on Waldina, I focused mostly on celebrating the birthdays of the people that inspire me.  I really tried to focus on the positive life lessons that can be learned from them and chronicling their life stories.  I am sure that it is no surprise that from time to time, I am crippled with nostalgia and fear that we will forget who people were and what their contributions to the world have done for us.  When I think about people not knowing who Edith Head, Paul Klee, Francis Farmer, and the countless others I keep close in my mind, it freaks me out.  That is why I keep remembering for myself.  I can only control if I remember, but maybe by making a blog about it, others can remember and learn from them too.

Total visits in 2014: 50,103
Total All time visits: 149,766
Total Comments: 2,936
Most Popular Post of 2014 with 1,139 views: Banned Books That Shaped America: Catch-22
Total Posts: 1,390
Most Popular All Time Post: Irving Paul “Swifty” Lazar – Style Icon
Total Subscribers: 375

fireworks

The RicardoDuque.com stats are also in. I started the blog in August of this year and it has been growing and growing. The key is to streamline a lot of the cross-promotion from the blog to his Twitter/Facebook/Tumblr/Instagram.  Go to the homepage and click on the plus symbol to be added to the mailing list.  Every time I post a new painting by Rick, you will be the first to see it.  You will automatically know of the dates and locations of all the latest gallery shows.  What’s not to like?

Total Visits: 1,517
Total Posts: 48
Total Subscribers: 24

west side story

On Wasp & Pear on Tumblr, I post and repost anything and everything that I find interesting. I have no format as to what I can post and what I can’t like I do on Waldina. I post a lot of art that inspires me, I post photographs that I like, I post videos that I find interesting.

Total Subscribers: 272
Total Posts: 3,538

tweet

I have mixed feelings about Twitter. I feel like it is nothing more than an opt-in agreement for a lot of marketing that I do not want. I am not selling anything, so why bother? But at the same time, it is really not doing any harm and it is still better than Facebook. Here are the stats for @TheRealSPA on Twitter:

Total Followers: 357
Total Following: 364
Total Tweets (I still have them automatically deleted when they reach 31 days old, to protect freshness and I fear a huge archive of bullshit tweets): 170

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On @TheRealSPA on Instagram, I have figured out a way to post photos of the people whose birthdays I am celebrating on Waldina and include a short bio about them. I am really liking it more and more because of that. Prior to this addition, it was getting a bit heavy of photos of my dog Scraps. While he is totally adorable and worthy of his very own Instagram (if I had that sort of free time), I like more of a freshness and variety.

Total Posts: 290
Total Followers: 159
Total Following: 188

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Happy Birthday Margaret Cho

I remember first seeing Margaret Cho on TV, it was a stand up routine and they played it often on some cable channel.  There was a part about her brother being a born-again-christian surfer and of course, her mother.  I have loved her ever since.  Today is her 46th birthday.  Since I normally chronicle either people a lot older or dead people, I usually don’t include their various social media platforms, but Margaret is alive and creating content constantly.  I love her podcast and her Youtube channel.  Coincidentally, yesterday, Margaret followed be back on Twitter.  Little old me.  So for her birthday, click on her clicks and follow/like/ingest and wish her a happy birthday.

NAME: Margaret Cho
BIRTH DATE: December 5, 1968
PLACE OF BIRTH: San Francisco, California
OFFICIAL WEBSITE: http://www.margaretcho.com/
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/user/mcho88
TWITTER: https://twitter.com/margaretcho
PODCAST: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/monsters-of-talk-podcast/id594033255
INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/margaret_cho

BEST KNOWN FOR: Margaret Cho is a Korean-American comic best known for her candid comedy, TV roles and advocacy.

Margaret Cho was born on December 5, 1968 and raised in San Francisco. Her career as a viciously sharp-tongued and unfiltered stand-up comedian began in her teen years. By her 20s, this Korean-American performer found herself starring in her own short-lived TV sitcom, All-American Girl. Since then, Cho has been the highlight of many comedy specials, tours and albums, as well as films and books. Her reign entertaining TV audiences has continued, too, with Dancing with the Stars, Drop Dead Diva and 30 Rock. When not cracking up the masses, this funny lady focuses her energies on advocating for gay rights and fighting racism and sexism.

Born Margaret Moran Cho on December 5, 1968, Margaret Cho grew up on San Francisco’s Haight Street during the 1970s. “There were old hippies, ex-druggies, burnouts from the ’60s, drag queens and Chinese people,” the Korean-American comic said of her official site. Her upbringing provided plenty of fodder for Cho’s early standup days. Her first comedic inspiration may have been her father, who once wrote Korean jokes books.

Humor definitely helped a pubescent Cho deal with teenage angst and bullying. She started doing standup at age 14, and by the 1990s, she had moved to Los Angeles, where her comic career gained traction. Cho’s first nighttime gig was on The Arsenio Hall Show. She became known for her outspoken and sometimes crude routines, as well as an ability to shed light on prejudices and stereotypes, especially those relating to gays, women and Asian-Americans.

Cho followed in the footsteps of other comedians by eventually earning her own TV sitcom: All-American Girl debuted on ABC in 1994, and was based on Cho’s real life as a rebellious Korean-American young woman amidst more traditional relatives. The series was groundbreaking, as it was the first primetime show to focus on an Asian-American family. While it was supposed to be her real big break, Cho has always been quite vocal over her dissatisfaction with the show, especially with, as she calls it, the network haranguing her to “act more Asian” and lose weight. In fact, Cho has often recalled publicly how she wound up with kidney failure after starving herself for her series.

Despite the cancelation of All-American Girl after only 19 episodes, Cho’s comic career continued to soar, especially after her critically acclaimed off-Broadway show, I’m the One that I Want, which was also developed into a concert film. Her Notorious C.H.O. performance at Carnegie Hall led to another smash film. The tours and taped specials haven’t stopped since, nor has Cho’s interest in TV stardom. She took another stab at her own program in 2008: VH1’s The Cho Show was a scripted reality approach to the comic’s life, featuring her real life entourage and parents. The following year, she was cast on Lifetime’s hit show, Drop Dead Diva, as lead actress Brooke Elliot’s assistant sidekick—a role that Cho has continued for four seasons.

Filmed at the Seattle Paramount:

TELEVISION
Drop Dead Diva Teri Lee (2009-)
Dancing with the Stars Contestant (2010)
All-American Girl Margaret Kim (1994)

FILMOGRAPHY AS ACTOR
Wedding Palace (27-Sep-2013)
Bettie Page Reveals All (8-Sep-2012)
Conan O’Brien Can’t Stop (13-Mar-2011) · Herself
Miss Representation (20-Jan-2011) · Herself
17 Again (11-Mar-2009)
One Missed Call (4-Jan-2008)
Falling for Grace (20-Jul-2007) · Janie
Bam Bam and Celeste (13-Sep-2005)
Margaret Cho: Assassin (2-Sep-2005) · Herself
Nobody Knows Anything! (2003) · Rental Car Agent
Notorious C.H.O. (13-Jun-2002) · Herself
The Thin Pink Line (7-Oct-2000)
I’m the One That I Want (4-Aug-2000) · Herself
$pent (21-Jul-2000)
Get Bruce (24-Jan-1999) · Herself
Can’t Stop Dancing (16-Jan-1999)
The Tavern (1999)
The Rugrats Movie (20-Nov-1998) [VOICE]
Ground Control (26-Aug-1998)
Face/Off (27-Jun-1997) · Wanda
Fakin’ Da Funk (1997)
It’s My Party (11-Jan-1996)
Sweethearts (1996) · Noreen
The Doom Generation (25-Oct-1995) · Clerk’s Wife
Attack of the 5 Ft. 2 Women (21-Aug-1994) · Connie Tong
Angie (4-Mar-1994) · Admissions Nurse #2

Author of books:
I’m the One That I Want (2001, memoir)
I Have Chosen to Stay and Fight (2005, memoir)

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The Story of Scraps

 

Scraps came to us with the name of Skyler, but I had already changed his name to Scraps before I had even met him.  I found him on the a local rescue website portion of petfinder.com.

From the paperwork I was provided, here is The Story of Scraps. (I have decided that before he got into ‘the system’, he lived under a bush and ate garbage.  I obviously have no way of knowing, but it makes for a great back story)

A471308 2 yrs old Female gray and black Terrier mix was adopted out of the San Bernadino, California Animal Control on August 23rd, 2014.  (I am sure they do great work down there and records get mixed up, but Scraps is a boy).  He was microchipped and given a few vaccines.  I have the name and address of the woman that rescued him from there, she will be getting a photo holiday card thank you note from Scraps.

On the 25th of August, Scraps (still named A471308) was neutered.  Luckily, in those two days, they figured out he was a boy dog and did not attempt to spay him.  On that same day, his rabies tag was issued, they listed him weighing 7.4 lbs and his birthday being exactly 2 years prior.  There is another woman’s name and address as the registered owner.  She will be getting a photo holiday card thank you note from Scraps.

Rounding out Scraps’ holiday card thank you list is the Collar of Hope business address.  I wish I knew more of his story and I will decide on his birthday when the his vet estimates his age.  I will count back from November 1st, the day he arrived at our house.

I posted a photo every day of the first week Scraps was with us on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Tumblr to chronicle the progression of his acclimation to his new life, to document Scraps becoming Scraps.  (He has gotten more ‘likes’ than any post I have every written or even any painting Rick has painted.)  It happened a lot quicker and was a lot smoother than I had anticipated.  He was shy and skittish about everything, but now runs around the house and plays with toys, sleeps soundly and even spends time entertaining himself chewing on bones or just staring out the window.  He must know he can relax.

If you are thinking about getting a dog, seriously consider rescuing one from a foster home or shelter.  The people involved are not in it for the money, the sincerely believe that every dog deserves a wagging tail.  The dogs are very grateful, gentle animals that will enrich your lives far more than you can imagine.  If you are still not sure, you can meet Scraps.

Here is a photo of his car ride home one week ago:

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Rear View Mirror – My Week In Review

This week, I created a new blog for Rick’s art. He still had the Tumblr blog, but I upgraded him to his very own URL: RicardoDuque.com. You should follow/like/subscribe/reblog/repost and all the other things people do with such things. It will be where I post his newest works as well as information about his upcoming shows. For example, this is the newest piece:

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Today (or even this week), I am trying to remember the point of Twitter. I mean, maybe if I had something to sell and I could somehow con people to opt-in direct marketing, sure. But I don’t have anything to sell. I just tweet out what is happening over on various internet places I post. It all just seems like a numbers game and today (or even this week) I am bored of it. That is probably why I have the tweets set to auto-destruct after 31 days.

It may be age, it may be cynicism, but news rarely shocks me anymore and it surely does not ‘outrage’ me as it apparently does to so many people that are frequent Facebook posters. Barely anything. Celebrity commits suicide? I’m surprised more don’t. Regular civilians commit suicide every day. I drive by Kurt Cobain’s house twice a day and see the people visiting his bench, I see the flowers and candles being left even twenty years later. Suicide is always on my radar, I guess. Cop killing an unarmed black kid, community riots, story develops, details become very very murky? Understandable. People jump to the conclusion that they want to be true before learning all the details. I do believe that the militarization of our police force is very dangerous and is distorting the trust that law enforcement officers should be building, but I live in Seattle. The police beat up minorities and empty their guns into drunk Native Americans on the regular. Mentally unstable guy goes on shooting spree? Sounds about right. We don’t do anything to help them and we don’t regulate our firearms, eventually the two will meet with an unfavorable result.

I guess I am just so bored of people posting Robin Williams quotes.

Still, I may dump twitter. I also need to find a way to purge all the older Instagram photos. For some reason, I am feeling the need to minimize my web footprint.

This week on Waldina, I celebrated the birthdays of Mae West, Edna Ferber, Julia Child, Alice Ghostley, Alfred Hitchcock, Norma Shearer and the death of Jean-Michel Basquait. I don’t normally chronicle deaths, but Jean-Michel Basquait is in a different category.

The Stats:

Views This Week: 968
Total Views: 121,742
Total Subscribers: 332

I did junk on tumblr, instagram, twitter and even facebook this week. meh.

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Happy Birthday Ricardo Romero Cortez Duque

Today is the birthday of Ricardo Romero Cortez Duque.  You can visit the full collection of his art HERE.  Here are some of my favorites:

Some of his work is in the current show at Vernissage:

Vernissage
Seattle Design Center
5701 6th Ave S, Ste. 268
Seattle, WA 98802
United States

 

 

Rear View Mirror – My Week In Review

I would love to say I was able to remain a member of the Columbia City Facebook group through SeaFair weekend, but sadly, it just didn’t happen. Those people are idiots and if anything, has made me like my neighborhood less. I sincerely hope to never meet any of them in person, which seems unlikely since a majority of their days are spent trolling the internet being unpleasant.

This week on Waldina, I celebrated the birthdays of James Baldwin, Myrna Loy, Yves Saint Laurent, Ted Cassidy, Elizabeth Short, William Powell, Clara Bow and Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis.

The Stats:

Visits This Week: 796
Total Visits: 120,010
Total Subscribers: 326
Most Popular Post This Week: Happy Birthday Yves Saint Laurent

This week on Wasp & Pear, I posted photos depicting what it would be like if other planets were as close to Earth as the moon, a lot of maps, what 200 calories looks like in various forms, and some art by Andy Warhol, Keith Haring and Jean-Michel Basquait.

The Stats:

Total Posts: 2,674
Posts This Week: 121
Total Subscribers: 187
Most Popular Post: Happy Birthday Yves Saint Laurent

This week on @TheRealSPA on Twitter, I tweeted:

“In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” ~MLK~
#ICC4Israel #PrayForGaza #FreePalestine

The Stats:

Total Tweets: 303 (tweets older than 31 days are automatically scrubbed to preserve freshness)
Total Following: 279
Total Followers: 216

This week on @TheRealSPA on Instagram, I posted a picture of my car over-heated on the side of First Avenue South:

The Stats:

Total Posts: 595
Total Following: 133
Total Followers: 121

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